Writes zazerkaliya : “Living abroad for 17 years. Everyone is always happy, and now all is well. But lately more and more often I catch myself thinking that I want to Russia. I want to move to Belgorod or in the area, I have relatives there, from there my roots. I want to translate mom, she is now in another city lives.
What I see from Plav, close relatives, mother. Terribly. Love the place dearly, I feel alive. Children will learn the Russian language. Want the cottage, the garden, there is wonderful this all is.
Of the minuses. American husband and American children. Will they be able to adapt. Medicine, we are actually all relatively healthy, but you never know, read a lot of horror movies. Write the pros and cons, pitfalls. Than run the risk of losing. I’m not going straight for good. Maybe 5 years, maybe more, if ponrvilsya… Write the pros and cons, if there are people from Belgorod or region, write to their t of view. Relatives don’t want to ask you, and I’m afraid their opinion will not be objective.”
This post from the forum where we discuss issues abroad. Then we discuss it. The person is real, which everyone knows on the forum, not hidden by the anonymity of what he writes first. Further in the discussion, the author writes that her daughter wanted to study in Russia. Here’s her dream.
Another forum has a huge topic for those who want to go back to Russia. The theme is a lot of years and which is only there istorii no stories return stories why do not want to go back. Some of the stories without laughing messages can not be read, some sad.
When you start the discussion that many immigrants want to go back to live in Russia, he immediately resorted crowd of those who with foam at a mouth proves that this can not be vyvsevreti. However, the forums are filled with such topics, and any Expat living abroad, usually visiting the local Russian-speaking forums can not know about it. Who does not catch on, who prizhivaetsya, but sees huge cons who compare modern Russia with the one where they went and realize how they lost.
Personally, my friends are suffering in Canada and openly say that if I were to return – would go back without thinking. Moreover, there are successful people. But arriving here, after 20 years of immigration, stunned, particularly their 30-year-old son, who said what, why you took me here – this is real life, there are beautiful girls and interesting young people. Now he wants to go to Russia to work and live in any global company to find a Russian wife.
My close relative is a student, our family was sent to study in Canada, as he really wanted… coming Back, or even ran away after 2 years. Now he is a student here and do not want to hear about Canada and more about a country. By the way, many Russian with his course back.
Friends from Germany in horror what is happening there now with migrants and also strongly think to go back. And husband is German! He worked for many years in Russia, where he met his wife, then the contract ended and they went to live in Germany.
There is a neighbour-a German who married a Russian, gave birth to two children, works here and says that Germany will never return. And if the German company will leave Russia, go to work though a tutor in German, but in Germany for nothing.
So why many do not want to see reality, and see her with only one hand – the process to go back a long time coming in both directions and this must be recognized.
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